Beyond Mediation

What is FDR in the Context of Family Violence?

Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is a structured process where an independent practitioner helps separated families resolve issues like parenting arrangements or property division. However, when family violence is present whether physical, emotional, financial, or spiritual it fundamentally changes how FDR should be approached.

FDR involving family violence (FSDV) requires more than just neutrality. It demands a trauma-informed, culturally aware, and safety-conscious framework something Beyond Mediation prioritises at every step.

How We Assess for Safety

Before FDR begins, we conduct a comprehensive intake and risk assessment. This includes understanding:

• The history and nature of the relationship
• Any existing Intervention Orders
• Patterns of coercive control or intimidation
• Cultural and religious dynamics that may influence vulnerability

We also speak to each party separately to determine whether FDR is appropriate, and if so, how it should be structured to protect all participants.

When FDR May Not Be Suitable

FDR is not always appropriate. If there’s a significant power imbalance, ongoing risk of harm, or trauma that may be re-triggered in the process, we may:

• Refer you to specialised family violence services
• Recommend legal pathways

Your safety, emotional and physical, is our first priority.

Tailoring the Process with Sensitivity

At Beyond Mediation, we understand that family violence doesn’t look the same in every household. Cultural stigma, financial dependency, fear of community shame, and religious obligations can all play a role in how people experience and report violence.

That’s why we offer:

• Shuttle Mediations, where parties will never have to be in the same room
• Culturally and spiritually responsive mediation models, including Islamic-guided mediation
• Collaboration with mental health professionals, lawyers, and religious advisors

Why Choose Mediation?

In some cases, where it is safe and appropriate, mediation can offer an empowering alternative to court. It allows parties to retain control over outcomes, speak to what matters most (such as children’s wellbeing), and avoid adversarial proceedings.

With proper safeguards, FDR can still be a valuable tool even when family violence has occurred in the past.

Reach Out With Confidence

Whether you’re unsure about your next step or want to understand your options in a safe, confidential setting, we are here. Beyond Mediation offers clarity, compassion, and tailored support no judgment, just guidance.

If you or someone you know is experiencing family violence, help is available.

Contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) for 24/7 confidential support. Or visit our Support Recommendations page for further support.